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Hookup & dating / FetLife review · updated Aug 8, 2026
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FetLife

Online since 2006 · tier 2 · 48% free · optional signup · light ads
6.8
Match Score / 10
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Free content48%SignupOptionalAd loadLight4KNoDownloadsNoVRNo

Metric breakdown

Weekly crawl data, 0–100. These feed the Match Score — see the exact weights.
Library63
Freshness66
Quality78
Player77
Mobile62
Trust79
Popularity66
Free share48
Ad quietness75

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